Any time you have two people together, you will have politics. If you think you need to bolster your skills, invest in learning how to work with people and not compromise your values. And know your values intimately before getting too cocky about your political skills. There are innumerable ways to get tripped up in life. And if you get tripped up, remember it's not the end of the world and you will recover. I've learned a number of my greatest lessons through my failures.
Patience is a virtue to practice not simply admire in others. Be still and know Who is in control of all things.
Managers are in control, not you, so you'll move up in their timing. They, like you, will need to be still sometimes, too. Like sita noted, the managers will detect your lack of concern for the company's bottom line. If the company doesn't make money, people don't keep jobs. That is a fundamental of life not some abstract thought for philosophical types. The company does not exist to allow anyone to move up. They exist to make money. What you think comes across to others. You'll need to work out your thoughts and attitudes to correct that. When you're in charge, you'll have lessons of what not to do to your subordinates.
It's easy to become negative in life. It's a lot more profitable to be and remain positive in life despite the trials endured. The trials will come and that isn't what is important. The important aspect of trials is how
you handle them. Grace and poise are invaluable assets in every aspect of life and especially so with life's hardships. If you think this is easy to do, you have not been sufficiently challenged yet. If you learn to use grace and poise, eventually someone will thank you for their application to them. Then you will know how you impact others' lives for the good, which is humbling.
I've known other engineering graduates interested in climbing the ladder move out of engineering to climb. They weren't interested in engineering beyond climbing the ladder. If that is your situation, you may want to look at other options. Engineering is an excellent springboard to other jobs or professions. There is no shame in using an engineering degree in that manner, as long as you are truthful about it with yourself and others. Know yourself intimately to determine the true source of your frustrations and how to correct them.
Pamela K. Quillin, P.E.
Quillin Engineering, LLC