Hi CAL, the matching between any 2 crystal mic elements is not going to be very good. You will have to calibrate out the differences. But, you should be able to make them work.
Any Opamp needs some source of bias current on the input pins. In your case, that could be a resistor to ground. Without looking at the datasheet, I can't give you a correct value for the resistor, but try a 1megohm for starts. Put a 1meg resistor between each amp input pin and ground. If that doesn't bring the output up, try a 100Kohm instead.
How are you connecting the output of the inst. amp.? What are you using to determine the output signal level? Are you overloading the amp output? Check the datasheet for available output current. Some inst. amps are quite weak.
A 9V battery is a fine power source, but you are running a single ended supply, and the inst. amp is trying to swing about ground. Connect another 9V battery, such that the negative terminal goes to the V- pin on the amp, the one you currently have grounded, and the positive terminal of the battery goes to ground. This will allow the output signal of the amp to swing about ground.