Take the pump curves and at each head increment, add the flowrates. Assuming that both pumps pull from the same header (i.e. the suction pressures are identical), the line losses between the pumps and pipe section (where each stream meet) are accounted for, you will have an accurate model of what the pumps' curve will look like while operating together.
At the end of the day, the slope of the curve is what is important (not how similar the curves are). Two pumps with a nearly flat curve operating in parallel will be very difficult to control. Two pumps operating in parallel with a very steep pump curve will have little to no issues of control because the difference in flow (relative to head) means there will be a lower difference in flowrate with a small difference in head. Thus, there is a lower chance than one pump is at dead head and you know it.
Clear as mud, I know.