Some FEA program are easy to get on and rock if they are integrated together well, I mean if it already got geometry building and meshing capabilities built-in. But those program are also usually pretty limited.
To get the best results, you usually have to bounce between several problem to do one simulation. For example, I had to use Pro/E for geometry, then hypermesh for meshing generating, finally use Abaqus as solver and Abaqus post-processor to view results. The interface is not perfectly seamless - ususually in those innoticeable sections of manual requiring very careful reading. Not mentioning that I had to use parallel computing in Unix system to reduce solution time, still hours/run. If with PC with enough memory sticks, one run can take several days.
Anyway, not try to scare people away from computer simulation. It is very time- and money- consuming at the beginning. Once it is upon running and confirmed by experiments, yeah, it is easy to run it again with different parameters.