Actually, section 2.5.14 of vol 1 (pg90) isn't too bad a provides a place to start.
However, even hdbk 17 is quick to state that fatigue is variable and application dependent.
Knowing you have a large SD in your initially testing brings in good data actually. Was your mode of failure the same? Was the ply orientation consistent. Were the laminae all exactly the same? Any of these will throw your data totally off, BUT are indicative of problems in your production methods. Don't worry, everyone goes through this.
In any situation, the fatigue is application dependent anyway. Most imprtantly, you should start anywhere and see where it lead you. Start high and work you way down. Depanding on your matrix you will probably find a crossroads where on emoment you are failing fast, the next you are lasting forever.
"Analysis and performance of Fiber Composites" by Broutman and Agarwal has a great section that is detailed, but still vague. The new text from Tsai, Gay and Hoa barely addresses it other than to say fatigue is good because the discontinuities between brittle fibers and brittle matrices prohibit crack propagation.
At any rate, most handbooks you review have well defined tables on traditional materials. Big surprise. Composites are so varied, there is no one good place to start.
I would think 80% would be OK to start, but only after making sure of the failure modes. If you look at your samples onder a scope you should be able to determine whether the failure was in the cross ply or other, the failure had a defect(inclusion bubble) or the failure varied due to ply orientation. But, like I said above, these issues can oly help to understand what your process variability will do to the overall performance.
you should get a normal distribution if all of the processing variables are in control!
Good luck!