itsmoked: Yes, I did read that, thanks much. I'm still confused honestly. Sil-pads all seem to be precut. Gap pads don't seem to fit the bill. Bond-ply would have too much additional adhesive collecting dirt. If you look at the image attached below, you'll see my ideal setup - achieved with a rather thick layer of epoxy and Arctic Silver adhesive between that and the LEDs. The epoxy isn't thermally conductive though and is only serving to help prototype this light bar.
I think the ideal epoxy replacement would be a liquid pour/spray thermally conductive, electrically non-conductive layer, that I fix these LEDs onto.
Thoughts?