Since your dimensions are created ones, you must create analysis features to make the hole table parametric. Choose Feature/Create/Datum/Analysis, choose Measure,Distance and measure from whatever will serve as your ordinate zero to the axis of the first hole. You can create a Cartesian measurement if your x-zero is the same point as your y-zero. Make sure you choose create Distance X, Y and Z. Then you can put the analysis dimensions into your hole table and they will update parametrically. To reference the x-distance analysis dimension as text, use &DISTANCE_X:FID_??, where ?? is the Feature ID of the analysis feature. Similarly, use Distance_Y or Distance_Z as needed. You will need an analysis feature for each hole.