With your current requirements for valve ON time of 30 msec this valve is much faster than that as far as I recall it is less than 10 msec. However, by easily changing the coil resistance (at the expense of higher current) and/or raising the supply voltage the ON time can be much shorter. The current orifice is 0.3 mm dia.
The valve is designed such that the pressure creates the sealing force. The current valve is working under 5000psi on one side and 14.7psi on the other side. In your case it is 4000psi and 2000psi. Therefore, the sealing force is smaller with your system. To keep the same leakage value (very very small - bubble tight), the orifice need to be smaller than 0.3 mm but much larger than what you need according to your previous posts.
One more remark, you mentioned "the valve fires 33.3 times per second for 0.03 seconds per fire" this means that the whole cycle is 33.3 msec therefor, it includes the ON time plus the OFF time. If we assume they are equal than the valve haS to open in ~16 msec.
Are you using PWM to control the flow?
There is no point getting into details because your exact requirements are not yet clear. For example, How exact the 0.005 lb/sec need to be? How will you operate the valve. How accurate the 4000 and 2000 psi are? and more. How much need to the OFF time of the valve and more?
If you decide to proceed with the manufacturing company they can adapt the coil, orifice, voltage, etc. to your need and probably to larger orifice and flow rates mentioned in your previous posts as long as it doesn't require major change to the valve.
They can custom design a whole new valve too but it will cost you more.