As far as the political side of this discussion goes, we here in Canada pay 57% of the US health care costs on a per capita basis and live two years longer. Part of the problem, with US health care costs is the high insurance costs due to your out of control legal system but that’s another debate.
The amount quoted in the OP is high. I pay less that $1,800 for full health (no dental or vision) which included excavation and reparation from Afghanistan should I get sick or hurt. It covers me world wide but only for 60 days a year in the USA.
Google health coverage and you should be able to get a quote from any number of companies that will offer you a personal plan. The up side of a personal plan is that should you develop a medical condition you will not lose coverage should you change jobs and the condition becomes a pre-existing condition for the new insurance.
Can you opt out of the employer plan? If so then you should be able to negotiate that the employer increase your pay by the employer share and you can buy the coverage you need.
If you cannot opt out of the plan then consider your share part of the cost of doing business and decide if your net after health insurance is worth your time. If so the accept things as they are; if not polish up your resume and look for a different job.
Rick Kitson MBA P.Eng
Construction Project Management
From conception to completion