Stable, or continuously rising, curve is a different animal than head rise to shutoff. Some curves will still meet 10% head rise with an unstable curve.
Centrifugal pumps are controlled based on discharge pressure. If your head rise is too low, a very small change in pressure can mean a very large change in flowrate. Even more important for pumps in parallel operation, due to allowable test tolerances, one pump could always be operating at a higher flow than the other. Or flow can surge as one pump overtakes the other, and vice versa. These effects are minimized with a steeper (more head rise to shutoff) curve.
When you have a problem (vibration, premature wear) you will ask the pump vendor for assistance. They will ask for operating conditions. You will provide pressure data and it will not be easy to determine the flowrate. Even if you have flow data (not as common as having pressure) the accuracy of the flowmeter may be called into question. 9 times out of 10, you will have inadvertently operated the pumps outside of the allowable operating region and repair may not be covered under warranty.
Having said that, an unstable curve (where a given pressure can have two potential flowrates) makes it impossible to determine the flow from pressure data alone even for a single pump. With two or more pumps in parallel, forget it.