Considering the resistance of the light bulbs, if this is a typical old style ground detector setup with no grounding other than the grounding lights, then you have high resistance leakage to ground.
Consider the normal current through the lamps and the capacitive charging current of your system. Now consider how much this current must change to cause the lamps to brighten or dim noticably. This change in current is about the level of your leakage current. eg; Very low.
With one lamp going bright, the problem is on the other two phases. Look for single phase loads such as control transformers with damp windings, or one damp winding in a motor with delta connected windings. To megger you may have to disconnect the motor leads and check each winding individually.
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