120°C is likely to fry the DP electronics on an integral mounted orifice. Meter body temp limits are usually around 110°C. Maybe someone makes a higher rated body, if not, DP might have to be remoted with impulse tubing, if the size and weight are acceptable.
Assuming your line size is 25mm (1"), there are averaging pitot tubes (Midwest, Preso, Annubar) that might take 250 bar. The spec sheet I have only shows scehdule 40, which is not enough, but I'm sure they make schedule 80 units.
The transmitter to pitot tube plumbing could be tubing with compression fittings. The flow tube isn't much more than what you describe - SS tube with a couple 1/4" nipples for high side and low side ports.
Generally, measuring both sides of primary flow element with gauge pressure transmitters and subtracting the two for a DP is not a good idea, because the error, a percentage of full span at the high pressures you are working at, overwhelm a small DP value.
If the error on one side goes positive and the error on the other side goes negative, you can actually get a 'differential' subtraction with a flipped sign that indicates the flow is in the opposite direction.
Turbine meters can have remote mounted electronics. When you said a turbine was too large, were you referring to the flow tube or the electronics part? Is your concern for size where the flow tube has to fit or the entire package?
Dan