KootK, glad the scope/fee negotiation worked out for you. Congrats!
Since it sounds like all of the vertical elements of the structural system, including bearing walls and shear walls, were delegated design, I'm curious what scope would be left for the EOR. Foundation design and floor/roof/diaphragm design. What material are the floor and roof framing? I assume something other than CFS. I am curious how the EOR's fee might compare to your originally proposed fee of $45K for design and drafting of what you were calling "the whole shebang". You were at $0.375/SF, which would probably be no more than 0.25% of construction cost, based on $150/SF construction cost, which is barely reasonable for me in the southeast, but probably too cheap for you in the northwest. You would expect for the EOR to be at around 0.5% of construction cost, at least, but would prefer to be 0.75-1.0%. I guess what I am getting at is, this seems like a sweet deal for the EOR for a drastically lesser than normal scope, unless he is discounting his fee substantially for delegating out such a large portion of the scope. If he is not, then it seems like a non-cost-effective way for an owner/developer to procure design services.
I realize none of the above is your problem; you have a nice job to entertain you through the holidays and provide some spending cash!... I am just curious as a fellow engineer/entrepeneur, always trying to expand my knowledge of not just the engineering but the business.