Rules of thumb for vehicles designed to meet stringent European 74 Db drive by regs are the following:
Silencer volume should be about 10 to 12 times the engine capacity.
If the engine has a short exhaust- such as a middle or rear engined layout and the entire range of resonators and 3 pass silencing must be accomodated within one big muffler can- then aim to increase your silencer volume to about 16 times engine capacity.
If you're aiming to make a high performance engine that really can't afford high back pressure then also aim for bigger diameter pipes and more silencer volume-again say 15 times eng capacity- to get the Db level back down-however this takes up more packaging space.
If you're package limited for some reason or the manufacturers priority and impetus to reduce back pressure isn't there you can go lower in silencer volume and use the back pressure to silence. But remember high back pressure is a cheap and lousy (read inelegant) way of silencing
Some exceptionally low back pressures from the top of my head
BMW E39 M5 about 250 mbar at peak power
Honda S2000 about 250 mbar at peak power
Aston Martin V8 Vantage coupe about 350 mbars at peak power
Euro BMW M3 3 litre (286 bhp version) about 240 mbars
BMW M3 3.2 "S54"- about 330 mbars
Jaguar X308 XJR about 750 mbars (supercharged means there's more airflow than the peak powerfigure would suggest- due to the parasitic losses of the Rootes blower at full wack)
2002 Ford Mondeo V6 (european) about 650 mbars (600-700 seems to be typical for a run of the mill cost compromised vehicle with no particular sporting pretentions