For the selection of external nodes on an area try:
asel,s,area,,(area number)
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I'm not an expert in acoustic analysis, however it appears that you will probably have to perform a harmonic analysis (ANTYP,HARMIC), which, as you say will require a frequency-based analysis to be performed. Remember that Harmonic Response analysis is a LINEAR analysis. Any nonlinearities, such as plasticity and contact (gap) elements, will be ignored, even if they are defined. You can, however, have unsymmetric system matrices such as those encountered in a fluid-structure interaction problem (see Acoustics in the ANSYS Coupled-Field Analysis Guide). Another, relatively expensive method is to do a transient dynamic analysis with the harmonic loads specified as time-history loading functions; see Transient Dynamic Analysis in the help for details.
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