Be sure to compact the sand fill in lifts. I suspect that this was one of the main causes for the "jello" effect you described. The trucks pulled the water upwards and may have also partially liquefied the new, loose, fill soil. Three feet of relatively uncompacted fill has a lot of potential for settlement, especially from a dynamic or vibrating source such as several heavy trucks running over the area. It is also a good idea to provide some compactive effort to the surface gravel layer as well using a roller or dozer.
One question, did the soft zone seem to "tighten" back up after the trucks were done with their jobs?