For those who don't seem to be understanding, OP is asking if he can define the four grids of a quadrilateral element in a non-planar way, i.e., the plane formed by three of those grids does not contain the fourth point.
It can, but it is very very very bad practice, probably will create all kind of ill-behavior if you try.
For instance, NASTRAN does a geometry check on the warp factor exactly to list all the elements that are "sticking out" of their respective plane. It will not interrupt the solution, but more extreme examples (like yours) may cause the matrices to behave very badly.
I would advise against it.