AndrewTT,
Figure 7.55 in the ASME Y14.5 standard, however correct it is, does not conform to the OP's design intent. The surface is sloppily located from the datums. The hole pattern is yet more sloppily located from the datums, and it is internally accurate.
Drake has labelled his figure[ ]5-105 "one correct method", which it is. It provides a fixtureable datum feature to measure from. The only problems I see are that the datum depends on the fabricator not filing off the sharp edge too much, and again, that it does not meet the OP's requirements. I do not see his figure[ ]5-106 as an error. It complies with Y14.5 Figure[ ]7.55. It still does not meet the OP's requirement to be positioned from a hole on the orthogonal feature.
Given that the part is sheet metal, you cannot expect a super accurate relationship to hole[ ]3.
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JHG