I see your problem.
If you have clean fresh water, without silt (which could gather in inner hollows and cause problems), or larger particles (wich could block pilote openings) you could use smaller or larger solenoid diaphragm valves with forced lifting, directly on your water.
In this case: forced lifting means pilote openings opened first to use the pressurized water help lifting the diaphragm by balancing pressure under and over the diaphragm, then stem attached to solenoid lifts further. Operates from 0 bar delta P.
Cheaper alternative is indirectly operated solenoid valves (same principle but without stem). Operates from 0,1 to 0,3 bar delta P
If not possible: you could use diaphragm valves where the diaphragm shuts the process part of the valve completley from the upper, actuating room of the valve. In stead of air as actuating medium you could use drinking, pressurized water. On/off action to be given by in/out feeding through 3/2- way operated cheap and small solenoide (pilote)valves suitable for water.
All currents available for both.
Also direct acting solenoid valves exists (process room divided completely from actuating part), all lifting force from solenoid) but normally higher price and fewer choices/variations in sizes, pressures and materials.
See for instance
where you can study the principles for the different types.
Producers: hundreds world-wide.
From your nickname I guess you could also study Danfoss in your native language, but principles are better explained on the page given.