Mayfield571:
I agree with SRE about the venting issue being difficult to resolve, because often you are introducing air witch is wetter than what you are exhausting. But, I would go a couple steps further than he suggests. Can (or has) the water table ever risen to the elev. of your intended new fill? You might want an outside found. drainage system, to a sump and pump, which would keep the water table some distance below your new fill elev. Certainly, grading and exterior drainage are important, but your problem sounds like something more than that. Then, depending upon the conditions and details of your found., I would consider conditioning the crawl space. Fill up to within about 6" of the intended finished grade, and then do the last 6" with nice clean sand, which is a nice soft cushion and can literally be screeded level/flat. Put the 6mil poly on this sand cushion and seal (tape) the lapped joints. Bond some rigid foam insul. board to the exterior found. walls, including doing something to insul. and seal the sill pl. and the rim joist space. Run the 6mil poly up the found. wall and seal it to the sill pl. area. Then, at least dehumidify the crawl space, or run a couple conditioning ducts into the crawl space. Allow these ducts to be adjustable depending upon the season. If you don’t go all the way, you don’t appreciably solve the moisture problem. Because it is slightly cooler down there during the most humid periods, you can actually get condensation. And, of course, the further (deeper) you can keep the water away from the finished grade the better, but you will still get some moisture percolating upward (capillary action) to the surface.