Regarding cost estimate accuracy, take a look at the bid tabs for a few of your projects bid recently. Check the % difference between the first and second bidder and then the % difference between the low and high bidders. For a well documented set of plans and specifications the % difference between the low and second bidder is "usually" only a couple of percent apart. We have also all seen the difference between the low and high bidder be as much as 25% or more.
The contractors that submitted those bids live and die by their ability to estimate the cost of a project, yet look at the difference between their bids! They all want the job at the highest possible number, but they can't get it unless they are the low bidder and most of them are good, responsible contractors (or they wouldn't be bidding your jobs right?).
I have two points:
First, it is foolish to think that an architect's or engineer's budget is going to be "accurate" when the guys who bid for a living can't get close to each other. How many tie bids do you see? The A/E budget may be a necessary part of the process, but don't count on it being accurate. I actually had an architect refuse to disclose his budgets because he felt contractors would use it to base their bids on - honest!
Secondly, a good measure of how well drawn and documented your project is, is how close the bids are low to high bidder. IMHO, if you want to score yourself, keep track of the % standard deviation of the bids on your projects, the smaller it is, the better you are doing.