ivymike, that does not sound like an auto engine. 60kg of reciprocating mass is huge. The problem is that g forces increase with the square of rpm, being 4 times as great at 1,800 rpm as at 900 rpm and 64 times as great at 7,200 rpm. For auto engines, especially normally aspirated racing engines g forces absolutely dominate the stress profile.
The two areas of greatest strain due to tensile stress in a connecting rod are the neck, just below the piston pin in the typical rod and the big end hoop. Failures due to overload, where there are no particular stress risers, usually occur at the neck where the rod simply snaps from being pulled apart and at the big end where the stretching of the pin eye, along the long axis of the rod, into an oval shape pulls the sides in where they pinch the crank throw, causing high pressure, oil film failure, high friction or seizure of the crank throw, rotation of the big end with the crank and consequent bending of the rod, breakage at the neck... followed by generalized mayhem.
For low rpm engines and for highly supercharged engines or for engines experiencing detonation or hydraulic lock, compressive forces usually dominate. Rod failure is then usually due to column collapse or bending. Buckling forces are 4 times as great in the plane of pin rotation as in the plane of the pin axis (see Euler Column Theory). So, the rod is generally wide in the plane of rotation and narrow in the axial plane. But, collapse in the plane of rotation is preferred as the direction that will cause the least engine damage. Consequently, rods are usually designed to be somewhat less than 4 times stronger in the plane of rotation.
For very high performance rods where strength to weight is more critical, design details are also more critical. This is where you really get into the questions of fatigue life and reliability; bolt notches compared to threaded bolt holes, machined and even polished surfaces vs as-forged surfaces, rod cap pinning or serrated mating surfaces, overall shape as well as contour details with respect to stress distribution, high strength vs light weight materials, cast vs forged vs billet, etc.