Different utilities require different protective relaying packages so it would behoove you to check with the utility in question. Many utilities really, really, do not like to parallel. We have a 12 Mw co-gen plant that has been operating for almost 15 years now at a local hospital and the local utility hates us. They are under a grandfathered contract that sells power back to the utility when the loads are less than the generated power and the utility has to buy it back at a "deferred facilities" rate which saves the hospital a ton of money on their annual energy costs.
It is also helpfull for the system payback if you have a good use for the heat energy developed by the co-gen plant. Much of the hospital's steam load, and chilled water load is fed from the co-gen plant in our case.
I don't know your location, but in our area, (Southern California) , an extremely knowledgeable source for the switchgear and controls is Russelectric.