The 'Seismic Design Handbook' edited by Farzad Naeim, Chapter 8 'Seismic Design of Floor Diaphragms' co-authored by Farzad Naeim and R. Rao Boppana has an apt design example.
What I like to do is use a frame analysis package to calculate the distribution of force to each element by modelling the diaphragm as an infinitely stiff beam which is supported by elastic springs (each elastic springs relates to lateral force resisting element in N/mm or kips/in).
By knowing the reaction distribution, you can calculate where the centre of rigidity is.
I have attached the important calculations from the Naeim paper.