My 2 cents:
I think you can use the shear friction capacity, but it is NOT additive to the shear capacity of the concrete beam. It is an either or situation. You can use either the straight shear capacity of the beam OR you can use the shear capacity via the shear friction method, but they do not add togther.
Shear frictition is really a clamping force to generate a high enough friction to keep two planes of material from sliding past each other. This implies, in my mind, that there already is a plane of interface bewteen two surrfaces, which, in your case, would mean that the concrete has already cracked due to shear failure, and you are computing whether there is enough steel to keep the now two seperate surfaces in close enough contact so as to not slide past each other.
JMHO, Concrete shear topics are definately not my strong suit.