I just got "The Weapon Shops of Isher" by A. E. Van Vogt.
Dude, turn the guy in to the bean-counters for wasting paper (and time and electricty and toner and wear-and-tear on the copier) if he spends the several hours copying a 500-page book! And if he takes the book to a discount (five cents per page) copy center, he's just spent $25 + a few hours when he could've spent the $100 or whatever and gotten a better copy and more value for his time. (Shoot, Blodget's books only cost $10 apiece!)
I make copies of tables, examples, figures, etc. out of my and my office's and my coworker's books all the time; if it fits in my design calcs, then that's the right way to do things! I also write - in ink - corrections to author's mistakes, code updates or other notes in older (but good-er) books (e.g, Teng, 1962) - but only if the book belongs to me personally or it's the office copy. That's also the right thing to do.
Frankly, I resent it most when I've thrown down my $80 for a new book and I find spelling errors, computational errors, missing figures, a missing sentence/paragraph (AISC ASD 9th - bearing stress - I didn't have the errata for years!) inadequate indicies and appendicies, and worst of all, if the book is nothing more than a compilation of references to other works!
When it comes to lending books, only get steamed if the lendee decides to put your book on his shelf. And ALWAYS put your name prominentley, premenently on the inside cover.