Typically I would aim for less than Span/500 deflection or 10mm, whichever is smaller. A bit more restrictive than standard requirements because bi-folds are a bit more sensitive to deflection from what builders have been telling me.
As for a weight/m2, I'm not sure I follow. Do you mean acceptable loading on a m² basis? That will be determined by local Standards but if you get stuck i use 1kPa Dead load for floors and roofs, 0.4kPa for walls and 2.5kPa live load for flooring (3kPa on balconies and other areas). If you can get your hands on is, AS1170.0 has a great table with all these things in it, you local code might have similar in it
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Chicken