mmmumuw:
I can't add anything of worth to Scipio's valued comments and recommendations except that it is my personal experience that what he states is engineering reality: the flexing and cycles that a bellows joint undergoes in some services will take it to the destructive failure mode eventually - something that you may not be able to control or tolerate.
You haven't identified your reason for employing them in the first place. You, as an engineer, have to have a solid and serious reason for using them; is it because of misalignment, vibration, flexing, thermal expansion, etc.? For whatever the reason, I still (like Scipio) would strongly advise against their use - especicially if the contained fluid is hazardous or can cause a safety problem if allowed to leak or spill. I have used them with success and with failure(s) as well. I would not venture to use them on an application without experienced, knowledgeable, and trusted pipefitters and millwrights involved in the actual installation and startup.
Even if you succeed in a good installation and application; you still have to maintain a strict operating log and inspection routine on the bellows if you want to go home and relax without any worries. They require serious and strict maintenance on a regular and controlled basis. Then, also, there is the question of using the correct metal or alloy as well as the correct mechanical design and fabrication in order to avoid built-in stresses at each fabricated bend. I hope by now you can appreciate what your boss is trying to tell you.....
I hope this experience is of some help.
Art Montemayor
Spring, TX