hydromech, yes a little unprofessional, but coming from the English, not unexpected. (Now THATS Unprofessional!).
The reason I can say " that excessive force applied when the piston chamber is filling is more damaging than when the piston chamber is being emptied" is because the damaging pressure comes, not from the inside of the piston, but from outside of the piston in the chamber that sees suction pressure.
It is certainly the higher discharge pressure inside the piston that causes/initiates the film of fluid to flow from inside piston across the shoe face to the lower suction pressure chamber. This is flow is absolutely necessary for lubrication and cannot be sequestered. The higher the discharge side pressure, actually the better the lubrication! (But then other things start happening that aren't good).
If you will look at most axial piston pump's data sheets you will see that there is a MINIMUM discharge pressure; below that pressure the spring and suction pressure will hold the shoe face down and not allow the discharge pressure inside the piston to flow across the face.
So you have the pump designed for a certain maximum suction and minimum discharge pressure. This will ensure flow across the shoe face. If you add excessive suction pressure to that, then add in the spring pressure holding down the shoes, you will "clamp" the face to the swash plate and stop the necessary lubricating flow coming from within. Bad things will happen.
The excessive suction pressure problem is not as bad with hydraulic fluid as it is so friendly for lubrication, but when using these pumps for water (RO services), or heaven forbid, methanol, the problem is greatly exacerbated.
And that ain't no rubbish!