With regard to Discussion 1, not knowing how the spec reads, as I said, I'm just trying think about the mechanics of it. From that perspective, I would have to say the .55 would have to be applied to all walls because the pressure differential would create forces on all the walls. The loading will vary widely for each wall and locally in areas of each wall, but it will be impossible to predict the pattern of that loading for even one particular wind direction, much less the infinite number of possible wind directions that can occur.
With regard to discussion 2, the AASHTO spec we use for bridges, according to the commentary, combines the windward pressure and leeward suction into a single coefficient. Unless the ASCE really likes punishing its users, I suspect it does the same. If you're going to resolve it, it would have to be based on the pressure, being that the relationship between wind speed and force is not linear. As a slightly conservative simplification of the actual resolution of forces for wind at any given angle, we use 100% loading in one direction and 20% loading in the orthogonal direction. (Wind at 10 degrees from perpendicular to the surface is only marginally less than these values).