Chaabain,
One method that I use is to create splits (in Solidworks) that cross at that point. Then you have a point you may select in Workbench.
Another method is to create a command snippet that selects the node at that location and applied the load. Since you may not necessarily have a node at that location, you may need to open the tolerance slightly. For example, to select a node at (5,5,5) add in a command snippet
nsel,,loc,x,4.5,5.5
nsel,r,loc,y,4.5,5.5
nsel,r,loc,z,4.5,5.5
nlist
f,all,fx,100
The issue with this is that it can potentially select zero nodes or more than one node. The NLIST command will print what nodes are selected so you can check, but this method is obviously imperfect.
John