It's called calibration. That's why $3 worth of bent metal sells for hundreds of dollars.
One approach is to build a 'standard gain antenna' where, if you follow the plans exactly, the gain is well known. Then you can use that antenna, and your own antenna range, to transfer the calibration to your certain dipole.
A simple dipole would probably only hold a reliable calibration over a narrow range. Most calibrated EMC antennas are wide band designs (not simple thin dipoles).