We replace single wood poles when rebuilding a line and do not use them on new line designs. For transmission voltages, the big wood poles are hard to get and expensive so we use spun concrete in place of wood. As far as deflection limits, we don't have a limit for wood or concrete or steel poles. 10% of the height has been used but mainly for aesthetics. As long as the conductor does not swing out of the right of way for a 6 PSF wind, we are fine with almost any deflection.
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