The danger of CFC panels exploding when hit by lightning seems a much lower now than what it was and this is supported by test results on commercial jets. A lightning strike blows a small hole in CFC much like it does in metal. Probably manufacturing techniques prevent the ingress of water which was the main cause of explosion.
Modern aircraft designs, Boeing & Airbus, generally do not now use embedded mesh in panels and rely on the conductivity of CFC and lightning wicks bonded to prime structure through metal straps. Mesh is used to provide ground planes for radio antennas and EMC shielding where it is needed but not otherwise.
Protection of fuel tanks is another matter and there are specific requirements there.
The corrosion issue referred to by rb1957 is very important as 7xxx alloy is at the opposite end of the galvanic scale to CFC and Ti. This guarantees corrosion if any water gets into the joint - ever. The Al is sacrificial to the CFC so if the smaller part (eg a fastener) is the sacrificial one then it will slowly disintergrate. This is why Ti fasteners are used and thin fibreglass layers to seperate the materials at the join to break the electrical path for galvanic corrosion. Of course you now need to have a bonding strap on the now insulated panel to account for lightning.
I have listed a section taken from MIL-STD-464A below that shows where you can obtain guidance on lightning protection for military aircraft.
Society of Automotive Engineers, Inc.
ARP1870 Aerospace Systems Electrical Bonding and Grounding for Electromagnetic Compatibility and Safety
ARP4242 Electromagnetic Compatibility Control Requirements, Systems
ARP5412 Aircraft Lightning Environment and Related Test Waveforms
ARP5413 Certification of Aircraft Electrical/Electronic Systems for the Indirect Effects of Lightning
ARP5414 Aircraft Lightning Zoning
ARP5415 User’s Manual for Certification of Aircraft Electrical/Electronic Systems for the Indirect Effects of Lightning
ARP5416 (Draft) Aircraft Lightning Test Methods
ARP5577 Aircraft Lightning Direct Effects Certification