ASTM A105 specifies a minimum yield strength of 36 ksi and a minimum tensile strength of 70 ksi. The lowest proof load stress for any type of nut in A563 is 49ksi, going as high as 175ksi for DH and DH3 types, which are required for high strength bolts and anchor rods.
You should have justification to reject the pipe coupling just based on the fact that a threaded bar has a much larger cross section than a pipe of the same size, and therefore a much larger force capacity, even with the same tensile strength. If you're using high strength anchor rods, that only makes the discrepancy even greater and the pipe coupling inadequate by an even larger margin.