SorryOciffer
There are several light-weight aerospace grade Titanium, Steel and CRES nuts that might work fine... off-the shelf... with SFL coatings. However, most are self-locking and could damage softer male threads.
There are specialty aluminum nuts for aerospace, however they require careful torque-control and a usually dab of lubricant such as cetyl-alcohol, oil or other lube such as SFL, to minimize thread-on damage... especially for multiple re-use. And YES installation torques must be carefully controlled/monitored... not eyeballed/WAG'd.
CAUTION. Multiple removal and reinstallation cycles often result in nut or bolt thread damage/wear that erodes thread quality... especially with aluminum parts.
NOTE
Steel/CRES/HRA/Titanium alloy parts can be made lighter while maintaining reasonable strength durability using tricks of the trade. The losses in strength and durability are relative to the location and amount of material removed and remaining surface quality [rough, sanded, polished, etc].
Regards, Wil Taylor
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