The problem is really lacking any real technical information and there could be a number of solution's to get you back to a lower flow-rate but you need to give more information. A couple of quick points for starters>
Was the well pump / flow tested at completion, any results?
Has there been any change to the standing water table?
How do you know the pump is delivering 19GPM, has this been measured or is it just an assumption based on pump data, which for some reason uses 19GPM as a reference point?
However get some meaningful advice, I suggest you throttle the discharge flow and accurately measure the output under steady flow conditions, this means a bit of trail and error until the pump can run at maximum output without losing prime (surging) this will allow some "guess work" as to where the pump might be running on its curve - from there we can re-assess what the best move is. If the pump is over capacity, I am thinking maybe long term you could think about removing 1 impeller from the stack but this requires some accurate flow measurements to make this sort of decision.
Alternately, seeing as how this is really only a "toy" pump of 2HP, just throttle the discharge to a point that the pump runs without surging and leave it at that.
It is a capital mistake to theorise before one has data. Insensibly one begins to twist facts to suit theories, instead of theories to suit facts. (Sherlock Holmes - A Scandal in Bohemia.)