Dear GHJ,
Thanks for the question. I had to look up what Lahar flow means. I found the following from the USGS Web Site:
"What is a Lahar?
Lahar is an Indonesian term that describes a hot or cold mixture of water and rock fragments flowing down the slopes of a volcano and (or) river valleys. When moving, a lahar looks like a mass of wet concrete that carries rock debris ranging in size from clay to boulders more than 10 m in diameter. Lahars vary in size and speed. Small lahars less than a few meters wide and several centimeters deep may flow a few meters per second. Large lahars hundreds of meters wide and tens of meters deep can flow several tens of meters per second--much too fast for people to outrun."
I would guess that the probable forces due to this type of extreme event would be hard to estimate without extensive investigation of the upstream environment. If the lahar is in fact a "large" one, I doubt any bridge would be able to withstand the associated forces (certainly not economically feasible). Sorry I wasn't any help, but at least I learned a little today. Good Luck.