I always find that the hold down + nail elongation is about 67%-80% of the deflection value, so you can see if increasing the HD strength (therefore, decreasing the ultimate deflection linearly by the Tf/Tr ratio) works as well as using the fatter nails and tighter spacing. Depending on your A.R. you might be SOL.
I find that WoodWorks usually freaks out with big openings because the A.R. goes out the window. So potentially you could see if FTAO works in this case or go to a moment frame.
As for modelling the strong-wall, you can't really but you kind of need to fudge it a bit in order to get the right distribution. I would make sure the rest of your structure is doing ok, run the model with a nominal wall, measure the forces and deflections, then re-run the model with an ultra stiff wall, measure the force and deflections. Consider those two events as bounds, and then run the calcs with a force within those bounds applied to the WSW and do handcalcs on that.