s0eebuch,
I would not use a coupling on an ductile to ductile connection. I would use one when I had no other alternative such as connecting ductile (or C 900) to an over or undersized pipe, or when making a repair from a main break. Instead I specify that a solid sleeve be used if not using another type of MJ fitting to connect to an existing main. The solid sleeve is normaly between 8 and 12" long versus the 6 inches normally availible with a coupling. This give much more pipe gap availible to get a group of fittings into place. This fitting should be in the online EJP catalog, I have the paper (page B-4) one in my office.
When I do need to use a coupling, instead of the "dresser" syle coupling I use one like the Romac Macro
As sold by EJ Prescott rather than the Romac 501 from the catalog cut sheet. These couplings (and the Viking-Johnson equivelent) do not have to be disasembled to slide onto the pipe, have a torque spec for the bolts, only two bolts no to tighten, the gaskets can be (and need to be) field modifided to fit a wide range of pipe outside diameters without having a variety of gaskets and endrings on hand.
I never liked tightening the dresser style couplings to the point that the bolts are starting to bow. Also I have been around main breaks where the bolts rusted away after a few decades causing a leak.
I would question a pipe laying crew putting MJ fittings in the ground (and conecting to existing mains) if there was no torque wrench on site since most (there may be an exception) MJ glands now manufactured have instructions that require specific tourquing. Also they should have an outside diameter or pi tape on hand to measure and verify the outside diameter of any pipe.
The book I prefer to have on hand is the Clow (McWane) "Pipe Economy" it has great detail on pipe installation and availible fittings that the McWane corporation produces with all of its subcompanies.
I am both the engineer and owner on my projects, so I have a vested interest that the work goes well. If not, I do hear it from my coworkers.
Good Luck!
Jefferson