Right off the bat you seem to have an inconsistency in dimensioning your floor beems and possibly the stringers. If the bridge is 76' long c.t.c. of bearings, then the floor beam c.t.c. spacing is likely to be 18'-0", not 18'-10". You note that the width is now 14'. I assume you mean the clear (inside) width between the main trusses. If this is the case, I assume your deck would cantilever over the outside stringers (ie. 4 stringers @ 4'-3" = 12'-9" leaving an overhang for your deck of 71/2".) The stringer spacing you indicate is more consistent with concrete decks than timber. If your stringers are web connected to the floor beams, you might suspect the original deck was concrete.
I doubt you can safely accomodate a H20 live load with either 2"x4" or 2"x6" laminated decking with stringers greater than 2'-10" spacing. You will also need a wearing surface of either 2" timber, or asphalt pavement. I think you will find that steel grid deck will be significantly more expensive than an equivalent timber deck.
I'm guessing these trusses are Warren type trusses, probably with vertical web elements??? There are thousands of these and many were designed for 16'0" clear (inside) width between trusses. If all this is true, then I'd be very surprised (read shocked) to find this bridge was designed for an AASHTO H20-44. I'm guessing closer to H15 sight unseen. Do you know if the floor beams were shortened an equal amount at each end before remounting to your trusses?
Given that you will no doubt want to accommodate services trucks, construction trucks and equipment and furniature moving trucks, then you might consider having your bridge evaluated by a structural engineer. You need to be concerned about the deterioration of the steel, particularly the connections. Armed with such a report, you should be able to fix the weak points and develop a maintenance schedule for your new Farmerfield Bridge.
As a final point, assuming you have freedom of information legislation in your state, you should be able to recover documents from your county about the maintenance history of the bridge, as well as all the design documentation. They probably also have standard details for how they modify these bridges to upgrade to H20 live loads. I recommend you commission an engineer to inspect / design your new bridge.
Regards,