I tried to post a longer reply before, but was having problems submitting, so I shortened the reply.
In order to get the beam to be focused onto the 600m diameter relay located 10^11 km requires a beam divergence of less than 10^-10 radians. Since the input to the collector is almost 2pi radians, that requires a collector optical magnification of about 10^11 times, which means that the exit aperture of the collecting optics needs to be about 600*10^11 m in diameter to get the divergence down. Otherwise, with a smaller exit aperture, all that energy is simply going to rattle around inside the collector and melt it into a slag. But, building a 600*10^11 m aperture is a non trivial exercise.
As a practical example, we deal with laser designators here, and one particular design starts with a 1/2 inch beam that's magnified to get the divergence down to 1/5 of the input beam to meet the spec value. This results in the beam diameter increasing by the same 5x.
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