FLexible diaphragm is a bit tough, in my experience. Staad does not have a database for deck types, so even modeling standard metal roof deck is tough. In your case, even tougher I think. Personally, I don't think I would rely on grating to give any kind of diaphragm strength.
But if you want to give it a shot, I think your best bet is to create a material with the density and Modulus of Elasticity of your grating. Then create plates of the appropriate thickness. This is all easy. The difficult part is trying to figure out what elastic modulus value to use. You want your stiffness (EI) to be approximately correct. Your I comes from the plate thickness. But E is always tricky, especially in your case since you have a "hollow" floor plate (grating).
I have used this appraoch to simulate metal roof deck in the past, where I had complicated diaphragms. I calibrated my E and my I (plate thickness) using a simple diaphragm, and known diaphragm stiffness and deflections from diaphragm design manual. Once I had an E and a thickness that gave the correct deflection and diaphragm shear on the simple model, I used this on my complex roof. The results were very reasonable, IMO.
Good luck with your unique situation.