123Cat, your project involves flammability (explosivity) risks. The information you requested is given herebelow from technical literature, you select the values of interest, among flash points (need a flame) and self-ignition points (don't need a flame), all in deg C:
Boiling range FP Ig.Pt.
petroleum ether 35-60 15 >220
diethyl ether 34-35 -45 180
I repeat, the handling of these solvents involves a flammability risk that should be taken into consideration. I hope you know what your are doing. Be careful!