Blakmax,
Good comments. I am a bit surprised by Tsai's response since it is well known that all of the lamina based criteria have significant shortcomings, not just his. That is probably a testament to complexity of the problem and why we might bypass lamina based criteria in favor of laminate based.
As far as SIFT goes, it is interesting. I think what makes it attractive is that it attempts to use the fundamental physics rather than simply curve fitting data. I have witnessed a few heated discussions about it's capability and generalized use. It would appear the jury is still out. However, it seemingly has the most long term potential for use in generalized solutions, which is what everyone ultimately wants. It is even now published in some of the later composite books, indicating that it is gaining ground. That being said, its use does not seem common in current applications (at least from what I have observed).
Perhaps the only real way to feel confident is to use the laminate based allowables and max strain (as SW mentioned). Anything short of this can work to some degree, but is probably only good for well designed layups, preliminary analysis, and/or with knockdowns to address shortcomings.
All that being said, this discussion is somewhat academic. If you are designing for holes, fasteners, future bolted repairs, or damage tolerance, none of the lamina failure criteria have much value.
Brian