I've been involved in countless joints involving Class 150 flanges over a lot of years, and the normal allowance by fitters and welders is for 1/8" on spiral wound gaskets after they've been crushed. I have never seen anyone use a torque wrench for Class 150 or 300 flange bolts on steam & compressed air service. I've never seen anyone get out a micrometer measure the gasket crush either.
Unless the fill material has been improperly selected and/or there's an extremely poor fit-up, there are very few field problems with spiral wound gaskets. And from a maintenance standpoint, there's no spending 2 hours with an old wood chisel trying to scrape old gasket material from flange faces that you can only get an inch apart. The spiral wound ones just drop out when the bolts are undone, or they stick to one flange or another, and just pop off with a little push from a screwdriver.
If design engineers want to check things about flanges, go after the idiots that install class 125 flanges instead of the 150s they should use. Check the SAE grade fasteners that are ROUTINELY used in place of B7 studs and 2H nuts. There are FAR bigger issues that need to be addressed. Really.
And if you're really going to specify torque, then get out into the field, and CHECK THAT IT GETS DONE. Good contractors will price this into their quotes, then lose the job to the low-bid short cut artists who WON'T DO IT because they figure that nobody will ever check. And you know what? They're right.