How are you determining that the fasteners are not yielding during component assembly? Are you using a torque + angle tightening strategy?
It is possible to determine the friction forces during tightening. Look at the two fastening forums at this website, especially the last few posts. There are links to previous posts and other websites that have information that can help you.
The friction sources are under the head (bearing) and in the threads. Typically, bearing friction is ~ 50% of input torque, and thread friction is ~ 40%. That leaves about 10% of the input torque left as the pitch torque, which develops the joint preload.
Friction is highly variable, with many factors that can change the friction between lab tests and assembly line use. Tool speed, joint alignment, contamination, etc. may be involved. If a torque + angle strategy is used, you can avoid friction variation altogether.
If you need professional assistance, feel free to contact me.
Cory
cpadfield@omnimetalslab.com