Here is what I found about the 2N3906 and 2N3904
2N3904 SI-N 60V 0.2A .35W 300MHz |
2N3906 SI-P 40V 0.2A .35W 250MHz
and here is an approach for the relay driver :
Start at the output, to determine what is required to activate the relay.
The relay "behaves"...