Severance or relocate
Severance or relocate
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Happy holidays everyone. I have a situation I’m hoping you all can offer some advice on. The situation seems similar to a recent post or two, but I felt it was different enough to make a new post. I work for an international company in the Midwest area. Details aside, my location is closing. Between severance and other retention bonuses, I should walk away with a year’s salary.
If I want to stay in the industry, I’d have to move. There are similar industries in my current area, however, which I may try to get into. My spouse has a great job and makes almost what I do. Most of our family, on both sides, is currently in town. I have two kids, neither in school yet.
My company has a site on the west coast (bay area) that needs help, and they are encouraging me to relocate. If I did, I would forego the severance and bonuses, but they do offer a nice relocation package. It would be a huge culture and lifestyle change. The increased cost of living and loss of spouse’s income would be tough, but probably doable. I’ve been with the company say 10 years and have a good reputation. It’s a great company and they treat their employees well, even when closing a site. Going to a new company would mean starting over in terms of relationships and reputation.
Money-wise, I feel I should take the severance. Career-wise, I feel it might me smart to relocate. That’s my dilemma. Can you offer any advice?
If I want to stay in the industry, I’d have to move. There are similar industries in my current area, however, which I may try to get into. My spouse has a great job and makes almost what I do. Most of our family, on both sides, is currently in town. I have two kids, neither in school yet.
My company has a site on the west coast (bay area) that needs help, and they are encouraging me to relocate. If I did, I would forego the severance and bonuses, but they do offer a nice relocation package. It would be a huge culture and lifestyle change. The increased cost of living and loss of spouse’s income would be tough, but probably doable. I’ve been with the company say 10 years and have a good reputation. It’s a great company and they treat their employees well, even when closing a site. Going to a new company would mean starting over in terms of relationships and reputation.
Money-wise, I feel I should take the severance. Career-wise, I feel it might me smart to relocate. That’s my dilemma. Can you offer any advice?





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If you own a home now, you would be renting in CA.
Maybe talk to your management and see if there is anything you can do. Maybe work for the bay area for the next year as contract, from home?
Chris
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If you do consider moving, make certain that your wife can continue her career if she still wants to work. Additionally, make certain that you are adequately compensated for the move (e.g., salary, transportation, housing (buying & selling)). Everyone in your family will be stressed by the move and you & your wife may have additional stesses due to the new job. You are fortunate that the kids aren't in school, but you'll need to investigate about schools in the area.
Personally, I'd probably take the severance pay and see what the future holds. You might get lucky and get hired locally without too much hassle. Finally, if 6 months to a year has passed and you still can't find a job; don't feel that taking the severance pay will prevent you from getting a job at your company's other office. It wouldn't be a guarantee as it is now, but it's not totally off the table.
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It sounds like you have a good grasp of all of the various factors involved. Just write them all out and evaluate them in terms of what is important to you.
Don't forget that since your office is closing where you are that your current colleagues will become competitors for positions at those "similar industries" at your current location. But any that get in can also become an intro into a new company for you.
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That said, unless you really see big things happening with this company, I think the opportunity a year's severance gives you will greatly outweigh not staying with the company. Mainly for the reasons already stated by others. Things can change a lot in a year and it gives you flexibility to act at the right moment. Flexibility is king for me, having that freedom is a great feeling.
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1st move (1975) was from a rented house to an apartment 4 hours away and we had 1 child.
2nd move (1976) was from the apartment to a rented basement.
3rd move (1976) was to our first house. still only 1 child, but the second was on the way. Stayed here 2 years while I finished my degree and had a third child 4 weeks before graduation.
4th move (1978) was across country, new house would be ready for 6 weeks, so my wife and the 3 kids lived with my parents for that time while I was in a small apartment, 3 hours away. I did go to my parents for the weekends.
5th move (1981) was to another house but we now had 5 children with the oldest in midyear as a kindergartener. We lived in a hotel for 2 weeks, what fun that was.
6th move (1985) was across the country again with 6 children now 3 in school.
7th move (1994) was back east again with 8 children and all in school. The oldest was in college by now.
8th move (2006) was to the south with only the youngest still at home as a junior in HS. During this time, our oldest son, wife and 2 kids moved in with us for a school year.
9th move (2009) was actually a split. My wife and son stayed in the house and I had an apartment 3 hours away because of my job and my wife's job.
10th move (2010) was to my current location. no kids came with us, but the youngest moved back in 4 months later.
11th move (2013) rented house was put up for sale and we had to find temporay housing. Moved into an apartment with the youngest son while waiting for the house we bought to be built. Second youngest moved in a week after we signed the contract for the house.
12th move (2013) 6 weeks ago we closed on the house and are still trying to figure out where to put everything. Still have sme items in a storage unit we had to have while in the apartment.
The moves with the kids in scholl were easier than most would think. One think was that the moves were made just before scholl started so they went to a new school and could make new friends immediately.
"Wildfires are dangerous, hard to control, and economically catastrophic."
Ben Loosli
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The point of that story, is that I've always found the benefits of a move to be worth more than the stability of not moving. The kids always made new friends. The kids schools always worked out. The commute always worked out. The inevitable problems with the new house, the new boss, the new office politics always worked themselves out quickly. And I always noticed that the people who were advancing were the ones willing to move to the opportunities.
In the OP's case, if you don't take the move to Hell (I've always hated the Bay Area, the coldest period of my life was the summer I spent in the Bay Area) then you will always be "that guy" who just never realized his potential, the big fish in the small pond, the individual contributor--because if you talk yourself into staying in your home town once, then the next time will be even easier, the one after that won't even be a thing.
David Simpson, PE
MuleShoe Engineering
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In charge of your own time, get to come home often and make more - employer has the latitude of terminating you any time.
downside, you will pay your own taxes/more social security contribution, no 401K, no vacation, no paid holidays, etc. just figure that into your fees.
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The first thing to establish is what do you really want out of life and what gives you the best chance of getting it? Is money the main factor, or your career and its progress or what is best for the family? Like speed, quality and cost you generally only get a maximum of two out of the three, when you decide which it is you want other things fall in place more easily.
You say your spouse has a great job but in what sense? Do they make almost as much as you but absolutely hate every minute of it or make nearly as much as you but love their job and or have a close set of social friends through the job? That would seem a big consideration to me.
Whilst the company may be great and really look after it’s employees the culture in one office might be very different to the culture in another and unless the chain of command stays the same the new people above you will probably give the job a different feel, maybe better maybe worse, but it is unlikely you will be getting like for like, worth considering.
The big call for me would be if I did decide my career and moving was the most important would it be better to take the money and then decide for who and where I worked, or be dictated too but with a firm job offer and much more known circumstances?
Of course lots of unknowns then come into the equation, would someone else offer more money/ a better position and a relocation package? How long would it take? Could you work in between leaving the current job and finding what you really want? Would a suitable job for your spouse be more likely in another location? All this assumes you actually want to move as a family.
Finally someone has suggested starting out on your own, whilst financially this would seem an ideal time and you wouldn’t have to give up a good job to do so, making these sorts of decisions based on unknowns is what you will face on pretty much a daily basis, you might thrive on it but it is not for everyone and the fact that you have posted this question on here would suggest to me it might not be for you, I could be totally wrong however.
Good luck with whatever you decide I hope in a few years you look back and think that was one of the best calls I ever made.
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Good luck,
Latexman
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Holidays are the worst time for us.
Good Luck, Like the previous posts mentioned, sit down, think about what is important to you and talk it over with your wife then you will make the right decision.
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I would need fully covered relocation expenses, plus at least a doubling of salary.
Yes, doubling. Housing will cost 4x as much to live within a 2-hour commute (one way) of the job.
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