Moving for personal reasons
Moving for personal reasons
(OP)
Hello all,
I got a job straight out of college that I love. The people, my duties, growth potential, trajectory of the company itself... it's all great. Now two years out of college it's working out so that I eventually have to move back home for personal reasons ("home" is about 2 hours away). We have an office near where I want/need to be, but the prospects of a transfer to that particular office are slim (though still possible if I'm lucky).
My question is: How do I go about starting the process of this move? The transfer is best case scenario, as I could stay in the same/similar projects and still work at a distance with the same people at a company that is strong and getting stronger. My other option is obviously finding a position at another company where I'd like to live. I would't want to commute the 2 hours, and there are no easier commuting options like regional rails between the two areas.
I want to explore the option of transferring first, but I'm not sure how that might affect me in the workplace if a transfer isn't possible after I've told my boss I plan to leave. As for a timeline, this isn't something that has to happen immediately, but I'd sleep a little better at night if I had a plan.
Thanks for any help in advance!
I got a job straight out of college that I love. The people, my duties, growth potential, trajectory of the company itself... it's all great. Now two years out of college it's working out so that I eventually have to move back home for personal reasons ("home" is about 2 hours away). We have an office near where I want/need to be, but the prospects of a transfer to that particular office are slim (though still possible if I'm lucky).
My question is: How do I go about starting the process of this move? The transfer is best case scenario, as I could stay in the same/similar projects and still work at a distance with the same people at a company that is strong and getting stronger. My other option is obviously finding a position at another company where I'd like to live. I would't want to commute the 2 hours, and there are no easier commuting options like regional rails between the two areas.
I want to explore the option of transferring first, but I'm not sure how that might affect me in the workplace if a transfer isn't possible after I've told my boss I plan to leave. As for a timeline, this isn't something that has to happen immediately, but I'd sleep a little better at night if I had a plan.
Thanks for any help in advance!





RE: Moving for personal reasons
On the other hand there are pointy headed bosses who are so focused on their own career that they wouldn't let a valuable member of their team leave short of death. If you have one of those, then your only option is to quit. So the downside of honesty is pretty low risk since your personal reasons for the move are compelling to you (and you are the only one that they need to be compelling to).
David Simpson, PE
MuleShoe Engineering
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RE: Moving for personal reasons
You have said that this does not have to happen immediately. Indicate your desire to move closer to home, if the opportunity arises, do not make a big deal out of this, it is just something you would like to do.
Then without telling anybody start looking for a suitable job in the area you want to live in.
If you find one, take the new job, if the transfer comes up first ,take that.
B.E.
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RE: Moving for personal reasons
If the reason is truly compelling tell boss you really like the job and company but you will eventually need to move to wherever even if it eventually means resigning.
It is probably better if you can disclose the reason, of course presuming it is what would generally be considered a good reason, although if you really feel it is private that is your right of course, but disclosure probably slightly helps your case. Heck it might even significantly help.
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RE: Moving for personal reasons
Family thing, e.g. aging parent or child care: employer likely to accommodate.
Girlfriend thing: C'ya!
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MuleShoe has some very good points. There are real people in real management positions - sometimes. I hope to to think I am one - but that always could be argued.
RE: Moving for personal reasons
The second move worked out even better. With about four months notice, my boss contacted a few of his colleagues which resulted in three interviews. I was very lucky for their help and if the job interviews fell through, they were seriously contemplating letting me set up a branch office.
Not every situation works out like mine did, bosses personalities differ and office politics sometimes get in the way. Good luck with your upcoming move.
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